John,
While I also advocate for the elimination of welfare as we know it, it should not be done until a whole slew of other problems are remedied as well. Your statement as to how easy it is to support a family doesn't take into account areas where I was previously located where the average wages are $6-8 an hour, and a 3 bedroom place can cost you upwards of $1100 (because of a land boom, there are VERY few apartments, so apartment living is rarely an option).
The example you cited is nuts. The $2000 the woman received could well have been used in setting up some sort of home enterprise rather than wasting it on extravagant gifts (we spent under $100 on our five children for Christmas because, hello...it's all we had to spend and we don't believe in incurring debt if it is at all avoidable, as it was in this instance). Basically, it could have been spent any number of ways other than how she spent it.
Frankly, this response is borne out of sheer idiocy. Personally, I have never owned a 50" TV in my life, and don't drink or smoke. Our recent financial crisis came from the fact that the savings we had was eaten up by medical expenses and lost income with the birth of our child, coupled with the fact that my boss laid me off two weeks after our baby was born (in nearly 20 years in the workforce, I had only been without work for two weeks prior). Fact is, there are legitimate hard luck cases, and while you have a right to a complete lack of compassion, it's my hope that that lack doesn't come back to haunt you and yours in the future.
im not sure if youre responding to my first comment (about the mentally ill and homelessness) or the other one (in which i suggested she keep the money). i dont recall advocating rewarding poor choices in either (unless you qualify mental illness as a poor choice).